Cheap Sex: How Technology Transformed Modern Dating
Lena and Eli explore Mark Regnerus's groundbreaking analysis of how contraception, pornography, and dating apps have revolutionized romance, creating new economic dynamics that explain why modern relationships feel so different from previous generations.
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A summary of the book Cheap Sex: The Transformation of Men, Marriage, and Monogamy by Mark Regnerus
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