The Psychology of Getting People to Say Yes
Discover why trying harder to persuade often backfires and learn science-backed techniques that actually work to influence decisions ethically.
Best quote from The Psychology of Getting People to Say Yes
The most effective approach is the complete opposite of arguing. Instead of telling someone why they're wrong, you ask open-ended questions to help them find their own motivation to change, rather than imposing your reasons on them.
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