The Performative Generation and Incongruence
Exploring why we label authentic responses to contradictory gender expectations as 'performative' - and how today's generation navigates impossible standards in a world that preaches equality while maintaining old rules.
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Authenticity isn't about not performing—it's about performing for audiences that feel safe and aligned with your values. What we call 'performative' is often just people trying to survive in a world full of incongruent expectations.
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