Communication models and how we create meaning
Communication is more than just talking. We explore three models of exchange to help you move past simple words and build deeper shared understanding.
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Communication isn't just about the words we say; it’s a process of creating and sharing meaning through symbols to reach a shared understanding. It’s the foundation of how we build our entire social reality.
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The script outlines the linear, interactive, and transactional models. The linear model is a one-way "railroad" where a sender transmits a message to a receiver through a channel, often hindered by noise. The interactive model views communication as a loop or a "tennis match," introducing feedback and "fields of experience" to show that we take turns sending and receiving. Finally, the transactional model is the modern gold standard, describing communication as a simultaneous "dance" where both parties are constantly sending and receiving messages at the same time to co-create a shared reality.
Noise is defined as anything that interferes with a message being received as intended. It is not limited to physical sounds, like a loud construction crew. It also includes semantic noise, such as using jargon or words the receiver doesn't understand, and psychological noise, which involves internal distractions like stress, hunger, or preoccupation with a deadline that prevents a person from effectively decoding a message.
A field of experience encompasses everything an individual brings to a conversation, including their culture, upbringing, education, and personal history. According to the interactive and transactional models, effective communication can only occur where these fields of experience overlap. If two people have no shared language or cultural references, communication is likely to break down because they lack the common ground necessary to align their "internal dictionaries."
Hearing is a physiological process where sound waves hit the eardrum, whereas listening is a deliberate psychological choice to attend to, understand, and respond to a message. Active listening goes beyond simply being quiet; it involves "mindfulness" to set aside internal biases and the use of specific techniques like paraphrasing—repeating back what was heard in one's own words—to ensure the shared understanding is accurate.
Nonverbal communication, which includes kinesics (body movement), oculesics (eye behavior), and paralanguage (tone and pitch), is often more spontaneous and less deliberate than the words we choose. Because these cues are frequently subconscious, they can reveal a person's true feelings even if their words say something else. The script notes a fundamental principle: "you cannot not communicate," meaning that even silence or posture sends a message that others will decode.
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