Apego Ansioso vs Evitativo: El Baile del Amor
Lena y Miles analizan el caso de Raúl, quien vive una relación compleja con una mujer separada, explorando cómo los estilos de apego opuestos crean dinámicas dolorosas pero profundas.
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Ambos están haciendo exactamente lo que sus sistemas de apego les dicen que hagan para mantenerse seguros, pero esas mismas estrategias están saboteando la intimidad que ambos desean profundamente.
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A mi nombre es Raúl, tengo 56 años. Estoy enamorado de una chica de 29 que está casada separada por cuestiones migratorias más de un año con ella. Compartimos todo nuestro tiempo juntos nuestras decisiones calidad de tiempo todo lo compartimos. Somos amigos intentamos una vez en intimidad sexual, no se pudo, se sintió mal por su esposo. Ella tiene apego evitativo y yo tengo apego ansioso no tenemos sexo pero nos cuidamos mutuamente. Ella dice que yo soy su salvavidas que si no fuera por mí no
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